SINGLE GUYS ONLY

THE RIGHT ONE

For the singles guys only! Especially those tagged the ’believers’, 'born again' and those that claim to be celibate. Please, no lady or married couple should peep into this!

You are in relationship with this lady and you find out that there are a lot of interests from other young men and it seem she's obliging. You accuse her of double dating; she either denies it or admits it. Your head is boiling and you are feeling betrayed...

Bros! Upon boiling that your lady is not faithful to your relationship; you are at same time having a crush over other lady (ladies). You call, send call cards, gifts even comment and like every of the other ladies posts/DP on social network.

Who are you deceiving? You are the one dividing your emotions and hurting yourself. If you are truly focused and committed to one relationship, the chances are very high- you may feel loved, pampered and celebrated or you may get hurt and heartbroken from the relationship. Everyone knows that. Why are you trying different dishes at the same time?  You cannot get the desired fulfillment; Pleasure and heartbreak at same time is the result of numerous relationships.

Although it is a widely known that Practice makes Perfect. But while in relationships, every young man and woman forgets this. When you are in a multi-relationship, parallel-dating or courtship and you claim it doesn't matter, you will do away with them once married; well that's a big lie from hell. When you form a habit, you can never stop it automatically. There is always a re-occurrence of that habit in the future except when the habit was never formed at all or in the case of total repentance. Experiences of close pals who said this before they married their soul mates have taught me a great deal what I am relating to you.

All of them are still in one or two illicit relationships even after marriage. So don’t tell me again that that the reason you are in different relationships is because you are still single. Practice makes perfect. When you marry, you must have surely become perfect in keeping different illegitimate relationship beyond the one you are married to.

There is still this fulfillment and satisfaction one gets when you are in no relationship with the opposite sex. Bros, if your marital status says single and you have not felt this fulfillment, you are missing. Go for this satisfaction now you have the opportunity because there comes a time when you will never answer “single” again. Either you are called affiance, divorcee, widower or married but never “single”.

There is this fulfillment and satisfaction as a young man when you know you are “of age” for marriage but you are totally single building your capacity to become a married man. That moment of life is the best moment in every young man’s life.

The ladies will always have many interests and suitors; the chasing game is part of their makeup.

Avoid: 
1. Desperate chicks: any lady who is desperate to marry you or any guy.

2. Feminist: whose idea is that she can live her life the way she wants even when it is against Biblical standard, cultural morals and get away with it.

3. Ladies who are to a great extent “reveling” and showing you that they don’t want you in their lives. Give them their way!

It will never be easy to let go of a woman especially when emotions are involved, allow them to find their space, enough of it outside your life and allow the willfully, emotionally unwavering “one” to find her way into your life. Finding such a person is not difficult when you are “sincerely single”.

And when she chooses you, hold that relationship conscientiously like you hold a beautiful bird. Don’t allow her slip from your fingers and don’t grip her so tightly and avoid snuffing life out of her.

Any lady that is serious about you will navigate all hurdles, distractions and find her way in your arms. Do not wait till you have all the money because trust me when that money comes, it becomes the most difficult time to sieve between love and wealth lust. Start up with friendship, groom it with grace, patience and watch it blossom into an everlasting and comforting love.

 #No_To_Wandering_Hands

#No_To_Wandering_Eyes

#Calibacy

#Yes_To_Fulfillment_Of_Singlehood

#My_Opinion! (There are 10 different ways, vintage point and perceptive to look at one issue! Today my focus is on these guys)

 @razorGabs 10/06/2015